Looking At Life Through Rose Tinted Glasses

Inzain daraina ina feeh habbat love stories oo chee. Its nice. We like to escape occasionally into a green field with little white flowers wearing a white sundress and curly long hair flowing in the light breeze with a huge smile on our faces and we are running towards our knight in shining armour in his khaki pants and white linen shirt with buttons open to his waist showing off his perfect 6 pack and blah blah blah. I guess you got the picture.

But i wanna see some more realistic stories. Such as Tigerlilly's story about the Kuwaity drug dealer / drug addict. I still havent come across another more realistic story.

I was discussing this with a good friend earlier today where she said she is only interested in happy ending stories.

La ana maby. Aby achoof salfat ily 5e6ab wa7da bint rfeejat umah laneh shes cute and has grey eyes. Oo ba3d il3rs wila honeymoon yridoon ildeera wehwa 24/7 either fil dawam wila wiya ilshabab. yrid ilbait min ildawam yuba il'3ada jahiz. Itha ma 3ajbah il akil yzifha. oo ba3ad 6 months ygooleha howa msafir Thailand wiya ilshabab. B3ad sintain 3indeh girlfriend libnaniya wila ma'3ribiya wa7da cool oo free. Ba3ad 5ams sneen yitzawaj 3alaiha bil sir oo she finds out laman wa7da 7aqda ityee tgooleha "ooohhh sema3t murt raylich / kanitich 7amil - wayid 7alyana mashallah 3alaiha". g6ee3a nas ma yista7oon.

Ooo aba achoof wa7da tiktib story mal wa7da oo wa7id m9a7been 9arli7um 3ashr sneen oo tezawijaw oo lama heya 7malat oo matnat 9ar ma y6eeg shakilha oo 6alagha ba3ad ilwilada 3ala 6ool.

Oo ilhabba ilyideeda mal yaz3am reyayeel yitzawajoon wa7da '3aniya (mabda2 sakany tejari) 3ashan ehwa ydawim 3ala ra7teh fi sharikat ubooha oo ehya ta9rif 3alaih.

Oo sowalif wa7da ba3ad ma titzawaj she finds out ineh hes a drug addict / player / sex freak / doesnt ever shower / eats his nose pickings / was born a woman / getting a little too Jerry Springer arent we?? Bas come on. This stuff happens.

Oh yeah I just remembered one of the story blogs ily she married a guy ily gam yid5al ilbait sakran jayib wiyah wa7da oo ygoom yadri6ha min il7ijra to get it on. Oo laman ta6lib il6alag oo y6aligha trid bait ubooha oo being labelled as a divorced woman ubooha miftishil oo y3amilha zbala which pushes her into the arms of the wrong man who rapes her. THIS IS REALITY PEOPLE.

I always say the following:
1. I would rather be a divorced woman and be labelled as a divorced woman (since its such a shameful label) than be the women ily rayilha y3amilha chanha ilbishkara wila y5oonha yameen oo yasar jidam il3alam wil 5alg
2. I would rather be a 3anis (I LOVE THIS WORD) if it means I have control over my own life and actions and I do not have to be the obediant wife to an asshole who reports to Mommy about his wife's sexual acts (true story - i have a friend whos ex-husband was asking Mommy for advice about his sex life)
3. I would rather be given any label on this earth if it means ineh '6ameery 9afy oo adri iny ma athait 7ad oo ma '3ala6t fee 7ag a7ad

Do people not know mabda2 il zawaj nu9 ileeman?? Ma sema3tu "ilrayil ma ykamil deenah ila ba3ad ilzawaj"?? ay ykamil ay ba6ee5?? ma achoof ana ila ilbalaway.

Do I want to get married?? HELL YEAH.
What are the reasons?? I want kids bil7alal. FULLSTOP.

The only man I trust in this world is my father. I would love to have a fairy tale ending same as any girl with blood running through her veins. But I still always beleive that ilrayyal ma mineh 2aman. His loyalties will always lie with their own flesh and blood. And for some reason they do not beleive that when you marry a woman she becomes your flesh and blood. Mako al7een rayyal y9oon murteh. La2 ma achoof ana ila the woman becomes a punching bag to be blamed for everything under the sun.

I beleive that is why God made women stronger. Qudrat ilta7amul 3indhum akbar. Thats why women are the ones that get pregnant. Have period pains. Go through labour. And the men faint in the delivery rooms. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

Inshallah I find that one person that God made perfectly right for me. Inshallah. Maybe I already found him and he slipped away. I am not delusional. There is no perfect man / woman. But there IS the perfect man / woman for everyone.

Just realised this was basically just my thoughts and I dont know what the hell I am aiming at. Sorry guys - this is who I am. Live with it wila click on the little red cross on the corner of the screen.

I have a lot of love to give, I just havent found the person that I feel I can give it to. I have realised that when in love people tend to ignore the bad points and only see the good things. Then there is a point where one bad thing will make you forget ALL the good things. Its a bad trait but I beleive this is a HUGE indication.

When a girl suddenly sees the guy in a different light, that means that she has snapped out of the bubble she was living in. I admire all strong women who have the courage to admit that they made a mistake and its better to be labelled than to go through with it. I beleive its a bigger mistake to carry on then admit defeat and walk away. I know some people might see it as cowardly but i do not. Bil3aks I beleive this is the brave thing to do. Sticking with a bad marriage and using the kids as an excuse is not the right thing to do. How do you think the kids will grow up and view life seeing their disfunctional parents in their daily life. So if there are no kids GET THE FUCK OUT.

I guess I am going through this emotional turmoil since there are a lot of VERY strong women around me these days that are going through marriage related crisises (is that the right word??). Ilmuhim - these women got the point of considering divorce. I always vote for divorce. ALWAYS.

I look at my past relationships and I realise that the one true love (or so i thought) that I had, I look at him now with complete i7tiqar and disrespect. I always think to myself "what the hell was i doing with him - this is someone i almost married!!!!". Even though the duration of our relationship was complete bliss but you really dont know someone until you live with them. Im glad I found out what they really are like BEFORE living with them. God - I think allah salamany min hal mu9eeba that almost happened.

Yes I am in a relationship right now but this time and for the first time in my life, I am going through the relationship thinking with my head and NOT with my emotions. So far so good. I am grown up and mature enough to accept my decisions and accept the consequences.

I am proud of who I am. I am proud of the woman i have become. I am proud of the way my parents raised me. Even though that the majority of my life I always beleived my parents should divorce. They made the difficult decision to stick together for the kids. Yet I am proud of who they are and what they have made of us.

I am the youngest of four children and I am also the last in our household to acheive the masters. Can you imagine how intimidating it is for anyone?? I have heard it with my own ears how women tell my mother that her daughters are over-educated which is why their sons that might be interested are backing off.

I just think of these men as cowards. Not that I am interested in any of them but the whole concept behind it. Instead of marrying into a good educated family and being proud that either me or my sister accepted them, they run away. I know it might sound big headed but I dont care. This is truly how I feel.

I can go on forever but I think I will stop here. Maybe continue in another post in a few days. Lets see how it goes.