A Post About "Love"

Whenever two or more girls get together the topic of men and love has to always come up. If not in details, then at least as a mention. Ive noticed that recently. When you really concentrate on what the other person is saying, you can begin to pick up on these things.

. . .being the single girl that I am . . .

Especially when it gets squeezed into a sentence that has no relevance AT ALL. I always take that as another way of the girl telling her friends "just in case u dont know that im single i AM and therefore you can now recommend me to your brothers / male friends / colleagues / anything goes". I find that VERY demeaning. I always want to ask the girl if she really thought of herself so badly in order to attempt to market herself.

There are no quality men around

This really means "there are no men interested in ME". LOL. Im guilty of using this very often in the past. It is really a defense mechanism. Where you are telling people that there is nothing interesting that you see when in fact YOU are the one that has no sale value in the market AT ALL. This quote is usually followed by the "men are like public toilets" joke. This beleif is generally lost when a girl finds her quality man and is regained when she loses him.

Im not picky when it comes to men

This is the funniest. In layman's terms, the girl is oh so desperado. Shes basically saying that literally anything goes. In my single days, I used to say that I wasnt picky about men until people started telling me that im very picky. Then i realised that any little thing in a man can really put me off. There are some things that I will absolutely NOT sacrifice in my man and there are some things that I might be a little lenient on. Some girls are not as forgiving and will never sacrifice anything on her checklist. And of course that are some girls with a checklist of one item being "male". LOL

I beleive that I can fall in love many many times and I already have

". . .and I beleive that because all of my previous loves has left me." (Loaded with sarcasm). Hehehehe. Im in total disagreement. Nobody can fall in love 17 times. I think maybe three times is the maximum in ones lifetime. The process of falling in love is soo long. It takes a lot of time and effort. Girls that beleive that are those that usually get carried away by the attention they receive from the man and often mistake it as love when it really is just flattering and appreciated.

I can keep going on and on and on. LOL. But i wont. Maybe another day.