As some random comment in one of my posts sparked off a series of questions regarding what I look for in a man, I promised that I will have a post entirely dedicated to this top.
Many people have a so-called "wish-list" of charachteristics that they look for in the person that they are willing to spend the rest of their lives with. Some of these items are must-haves and some are preferrables. Some are even there just to make the list longer and better sounding. LOL. In most cases, the list changes dramatically depending on the person and the one they meet. For example, some people want a really cool outgoing person but then realise that they are too jealous for that.
Anyways heres my list:
Must-haves (personality related characteristics)
1. Respect - notice this comes top of the list and before love.
2. Someone who loves me for who I am and will not try to change me.
3. Sense of humour.
4. Open-minded
5. Not too religious.
6. Social and out-going
7. Has the same hobbies and interests as me (mainly cars and water activities)
8. Intellectually stimulating - i like an educated reader
9. Accepting of my male friends
10. Confident and self assured - i dont like those so-so guys that need someone to make a decision for them
11. Romantic - im all about romance, flowers and presents will always put a smile on my face especially when there is no occasion for it
Must-haves (non-personality related characteristics)
1. Tall - as previously mentioned at least 173 cm in height
2. Big built - i like a guy who when he hugs me, i dissappear
3. Good stable job with a steady income - i dont want the reason for me working to be the NEED for money
4. No long hair - dont like that on guys
5. Trendy - im a fashionable person, if pink is in fashion, i want him to wear pink
6. Very good english speaker - i communicate mainly in english, cant think too fast in arabic
I guess these are the main characteristics that I want in my guy. Is that too much to ask?? LOL. No but seriously, in Oman, I have learnt that it is relatively difficult to find a guy with these characteristics. And there is a lot that Im willing to sacrifice provided I am assured that he really loves me and I really love him. (All except the height thing of course)
I know what most of you reading this are saying. 6al3u hathi ba6rana ma bagat shai. But seriously, I really dont think its too much to ask. I know plenty of people with these characterstics but my problem is that when I meet someone going into it thinking of them as friends, there is no way I can change my mind. Its a very bad habit but I really cant help it.
I would love to see a male version of my post. I can just imagine. 6aweela, baitha, tha3eefa, daloo3a, etc. LOL
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12 m3andeen:
well i know i am out of the picture
which of my shuroo6 put u off exactly?? im interested to know
well, I am resigning from work and your condition states that i would have to have a stable job/source of income..
LOL
The usual comment I get is "i cant accept u having male friends"
Thats why I wanted clarification
What about u?? What do you look for in ur life partner??!!
me?
I look for lots of stuff such as being romantic, relegious to the point where she knows what can and cannot be done, she has to have a sense of humor, compassionate, sensitive, understanding, and most of all, we have to get along in the sense that we would think alike
Am everything you're looking for except 6,7 and 9 for the personality side. lol
Though, am not even intrested yet that was fun to read. You brought some casual laughs here and there. Typo :D
this may be what i look for in a man but it doesnt necessarily mean that im actually looking.
anyways even IF i was looking, then u wouldnt fit the bill due to ur relatively young age!!
PS. I noticed my typos but i couldnt be bothered to change them
So you're like what? 30? :D
actually i turned 26 less than a month ago. your point being??
Point is, does age interferes with love? Supposedly you met a guy and you like him from the first sight, so did he. Would you stop liking him when you know he’s 6 years older/younger?
i think yes i will stop liking him. i mean 6 or 7 years is a huge difference. hello!!! im 26 which makes him 20 which means ive been working for 5 years and hes still not out of college. if i was 40 and he was 35 that might be a huge difference. upto 6 months younger if were both born in the same year im ok with
I hope you like your personal space because with that list of demands that's exactly what you're going to get a lot of. Keep it simple, babe. And remember...
...enjoy the "fuck years" before time passes you by...
-prophet Joe
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